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Disappointment · PAUSE AND PRAY

When life does not go as you hoped

AN ORIGINAL SELAH37 PRAYER

God, this is not what I hoped for. Receive the sadness and questions I do not know how to resolve. Help me be honest without becoming closed to every good thing. Give me wise companions and a next step that respects what has been lost. Renew hope gently, without asking me to pretend. Amen.

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Biblical foundation

Lament gives faithful language to disappointment. Hope in Lamentations appears inside a book of devastating communal loss.

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Do not isolate Lamentations 3’s hope from its grief. The text makes room for both trust and protest.

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